1. Sinkhole : hố , chỗ hấp thu
She’s a massive attention “sink hole”.
2. Interpreted
She overshares and over-reveals herself
Information will also be interpreted very differently depending on how close and intimate the relationship is
3. Inadvertently : vô tình
Preventing
Metaphorically- metaphorically : một cách ẩn dụ
So by sharing too much information, you can inadvertently be preventing deeper connection from forming and be shooting yourself in the foot metaphorically speaking ( theo cách nói ẩn dụ )
4. Get pissed off : trở nên tức giận
Assert : khẳng định
People can sometimes get pissed off when we assert ourselves or speak a resounding ‘no’
5. Simultaneously : đồng thời
spontaneity : tính tự phát , tự động
You can’t simultaneously be a control freak and enjoy the spontaneity
and fowing dynamics of an intimate relationship. You have to choose
one
6. delve : đào sâu
euphoria : niềm hạnh phúc
If you choose to delve deep in connecting with a man, you will be faced with waves of emotions, euphoria as well as fear
7. Vulnerability : sự dễ tổn thương
8. Extract : giải nén
And by being a taker, you automatically position yourself to be low value because you are extracting value where you can
9. Calibrated : hiệu chỉnh
I don’t want you to think that you shouldn’t ever take, that’s not true. We want a calibrated balance here. There’s a gift in being able to take, and being able to receive value. (But that’s a topic for another day!)
10. fountain : đài phun nước
You want to be a value fountain, not a value drain.
11. Intrinsic : nội tại
You want to fgure out what is actually ‘value’ to men in general, to your friends and the people around you. But to do this, you must have value within you frst. You have to have (what I call…) “Intrinsic Value”
1. She’s a massive attention “sink hole”
2.She overshares and over-reveals herself.
3.She just can’t say NO.
4.She sleeps with him too early to try to keep him around
5.She has low value body language and gait.
6.She is a control freak and not willing to let go of her certainty
7. She rejects her own vulnerability
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